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    Nerd Herd Wednesday - Glee

    20090527 09:06

    With all of my favorite shows on hiatus for the summer, and my hatred of reality TV growing more prominent by the minute, I’ve found myself online using Hulu more than usual. Yesterday they had a free comedy day, which I must say is totally misleading because Hulu is always free, that let users watch shows with no commercial interruption. Most of them I’d seen already (oh, The Office, you are just so darn lovely), but there was a promo for a new show on Fox called Glee. I’d seen commericals for it before, and it looked totally dumb, but seeing as I had nothing else to do at the moment, I decided to watch.


    Dudes, I’ve found my new love. This show is the lovechild of all the great Fox shows (think Arrested Development or Freaks and Geeks) with a healthy dose of the movies Napolean Dynamite or Election. But the kicker for me was the blatent parody of the High School Musical-ish shows that have filled our TVs and Target stores for the past few years. Now, we all know I used to love my High School Musical, but Glee takes all the cheesy parts I loved and twists them. Bascially, it allows me to love the singing and the dancing while still having my indie comedy street cred. Thanks, Glee!

    Oh good lord, I guess you’ll know where to find me this fall…hey, at least it’s not more vampires, right?!

    Right?

    Crap.

    You can watch the pilot of Glee for free on Hulu or on iTunes. Do it, you know you want to.

    On Being a Wife

    20090526 13:17

    This weekend I was lucky enough to attend the wedding of two fairly awesome people. Heath and Mikayla, who have been constant comrades of Trent and myself for the last four years, were finally joined as husband and wife. Their wedding was gorgeous, touching, and most importantly, very “them.” From the colors to the music to their poignent, self-written vows, each part of the ceremony and reception reminded me of who they are, both individually and as a couple.

    One very important detail I took away from this wonderful weekend is the importance of a strong relationship, and more specifically, the importance of being a good wife. I’m sure most of you never thought you’d hear those words come out of my feminist, progressive, self-sufficient mouth, but just hear me out.

    One of the points in Mikayla’s vows really touched me, and that was the part where she promised to be a good wife to him and fulfill his “many” needs. Though we all chuckled at that statement, I knew deep down she meant it. Sometimes our husbands do need quite a lot. And though it is my automatic reaction to bitch and moan and complain about how his needs aren’t more important than my own, sometimes I just need to suck it up and do what I can to make him feel better. And that doesn’t make me less of a feminist. In fact, I feel more empowered knowing that I can make him feel better when no one else can. I need to remember that when I begin to automatically get defensive. Sometimes he needs things, and sometimes I need to be the wife that he needs.

    There is a saying that Heath has always repeated when it comes to certain couples, and it was the way he ended his vows to Mikayla this Saturday. When he feels that a man has gotten a better woman than he deserves, he’ll say that person has “outkicked his coverage.” Both Heath and Trent will readily admit that they outkicked their coverage when it comes to their wives, but I need to do my best to remember I outkicked mine as well. I have to try and remember more often that I’m not only a mother and a breadwinner, but also a life partner to someone who needs my support, even when I am not sure I can give it. Mikayla has always excelled at that, putting Heath’s needs before her own and holding her tounge when I have unwisely let my sarcastic side out of it’s cage. I’m so happy I get to watch her, and Heath, as they grow in their marriage. I’m lucky to have someone around that puts being a wife in a perspective that I don’t always notice during my daily trials and tribulations.

    Heath and Mikayla, may you always be as happy together as you were this weekend. And when you’re not, may you remember your own words. Sometimes we all need to remember we outkicked our coverage, and put the other person’s needs before our own. Thank you for reminding me that doing this doesn’t make me a weaker partner, but a stronger one.

    The Newlyweds!

    You can see the very few photos I took (no time, too much fun to be had for photo taking!) at the wedding/rehearsal here.

    Having a Good Time

    20090520 21:16

    Watch this wedding video and try not to smile. Seriously, try. Bet you won’t succeed.


    Brian & Eileen’s Wedding Music Video. from LOCKDOWN projects on Vimeo.

    If only I’d found this earlier, we could have planned a massive wedding music video for Heath and Mikayla’s wedding this Saturday. Maybe something starring Michael Jackson….

    (via Mighty Girl)

    Shiny Happy People

    20090519 15:04

    Two very important things occurred this past weekend. First, my lovely Mara graduated from college. Seriously, isn’t she the prettiest girl ever?!

    5/17/09

    Mara is one of my best friends in the entire universe, and though she loves to annoy the poo out of me (her nickname for me is Old Balls Black Bear…I have no idea what it means either, but she thinks it’s hilarious), I couldn’t live without her. She already knows how incredibly proud I am of her accomplishments, but I like embarassing her, and nothing makes Mara more unhappy then seeing photos of herself.

    Mara + Abbie (sort of)

    Us with the Graduate!

    This happy event was a long time coming, and was totally worth it. Congrats, The Mara! I’m so happy you have made it this far and have joined me as a fellow Jayhawk alumna. Every time I hear you scream Rock Chalk or curse out UNC, it makes me smile knowing that I get to share my love of KU with you. And it’s also nice to know I’ll never be the most extreme or psychotic fan in the room, as long as you’re there with me. You did good, Mars, really good.

    Now go get a job, woman!

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    The other big event this past weekend was the bachelorette party for Miss Mikayla. For those of you who have been living under a rock for the past four years, Mikayla is the fiance of Heath, who is Trent’s business partner. We all used to live a few blocks away from each other in the West Plaza area of Kansas City, and when I was huge and pregnant and generally pissed off, Mikayla would bring me cookies and watch American Idol with me. Though we always claim to be completely different (I think we have about four things in common, total) one thing we share is our extreme dork factors. I went to Space Camp, her favorite movie is Newsies. I read books about vampires, she would like us to act out the Thriller dance, in full zombie garb, for her wedding reception. The list goes on.

    But she has become a great friend in the past few years, starting with her willingness to listen to my pregnant grumblings, to becoming my daughter’s godmother, to sharing bitch sessions on whatever new scheme our boys have come up with for their business. She’s good person, a great friend, and is going to be a gorgeous bride.

    5/16/09

    Best Friends (4EVA!)

    The Girls!

    You can view all of the pictures from this weekend here. If you need me, I’ll be taking a week-long nap to recover from all this excitement.

    I Won’t Disappear, In This City*

    20090513 09:19

    For Mother’s Day, Trent and I decided to abandon our original plans of going to the giant, suburban movie theater out by our house and head downtown to the newly renovated AMC Mainstreet Theater. When we upgraded our original tickets (to Star Trek, squeeee!) from the regular theater to the high tech Cinema Suites, and we were definitely not disappointed. Recliners, a waitress at our disposal, chocolate covered raisins, wine and chairs that vibrate with the noise during the high action scenes, it was probably my favorite movie watching experience to date. Unfortunately, due to our ticket change, we had two hours to kill between dinner and the start of our movie. We were both totally wiped from a long weekend, so we spent part of that time, ahem, sleeping in our car. Like crazy people. We sure do know how to have fun on a night out.

    But the other part of the night was spent enjoying our city and wondering why we moved to the suburbs in the first place. We don’t miss the crime, lack of space and bad schools, but we sure do miss the pulse and activity you find in the urban part of Kansas City. Knowing us, we may even move back someday when we have infinite income and less small children. Until then though, we decided to make a real effort to enjoy what our city has to offer, even though we’re living out in suburbia now.

    A few things we try to do on a weekly or monthly basis:

    Attend First Friday’s in the Crossroads District - All the art galleries open for free viewing and most serve drinks and appetizers as well. There are street performers, slushie machines on street corners and amazing pieces of art. The bands playing in the streets are pretty nice as well. (First Friday of Every Month, Crossroads Art District, next one is on June 5)

    City Market - The biggest farmers’ market in town with amazing food, fresh and local. Also a great place to find plants for your garden or random handmade knick knacks you can’t live without. (Saturday and Sunday mornings, Downtown Rivermarket)

    And here are some activites we really want to try this year. Some are repeats of years past, but we kept them on this list because they are definitely things we want to try again:

    Royals Game (family outing) - The recently renovated Royals stadium is ah-may-zing! More family friendly, more technology and the local fans couldn’t be more excited. Now the Royals just need to learn how not to suck!

    T-Bones Game (to get drunk) - Trent added the “to get drunk” part. The T-Bones are a local baseball team that plays out in Johnson County. Their games are cheaper, and more laid back then the Royals, plus, the T-Bones are actually a pretty good team in their league.

    Nelson Atkins Family Day - We used to live right next to the Nelson Atkins Art Museum, and, of course, as people tend to do when they live so close to cool landmarks, we hardly ever went there. We want to plan a fun day with Lulu to spend entirely at the museum. Maybe on a hot July day when we all need a break from the sun.

    Johnson County Community College Art Museum - My company designed this facility, and I’ve still never spent much time there. May be a quick and cheaper option then the Nelson Atkins and it’s right down the street from our house.

    Berry Picking / Shatto Milk Farm / Dianna Rose Farmstead - We’ve actually been to Dianna Rose a few times, but I’d love to spend a whole day and have Trent come with us. The berry picking place was sent to me by Nicole, who’s moving here this summer, and it sounds like a great time. Shatto Milk is a great local company, and I try to buy their milk as often as possible (it comes in glass bottles, so fun!). I would love to take a tour and help milk a cow or two! And Lu would just like some of their pink (strawberry) milk.

    Chiefs Game Post Renovation - The renovation of the stadium is almost complete, and hopefully as nice as what they did for the Royals. We may have lost our coach and our most likeable player, but that doesn’t mean I don’t want to be screaming “CHHEEEIIIFFFSS!” from the new seats come Fall.

    NCAA / Negro League Museums - The Negro League Museum was the lovechild of our hometown hero Buck O’Neill, one of the great negro league baseball players who gave so much back to KC before his death two years ago. The NCAA Museum was built along with the Sprint Center last year, and I’ve toured it once (right before it opened), but would love to see it completely finished.

    Amtrack Trip - Maybe just a short train ride up north, or even to St. Louis if we’re getting ballsy.

    Cinema Suites at Mainstreet Theater - We put this on the list just so we could cross something off. This renovated tech-heavy facility is so much fun, I think everyone should try it once (preferably with a very loud action movie so you can feel the seats vibrating).

    Plaza Lighting / Carriage Ride - Trent and I lived on the Plaza for over five years, and still never saw the famous lighting of Christmas lights on Thanksgiving Eve. The only time we were ever in town for the event, I was working and Trent was with his family. Bummer. We’re going to stay close to home this holiday season, and hopefully we can make it down and get our carriage ride as well.

    KC Jazz - I have never seen real jazz in KC. Please don’t shoot me. I know, I’m awful. But I’m making the resolution to fix this atrocity. This year, baby, I swear.

    Downtown Stay-Cation - Since we’ll never get a chance to go on a honeymoon (I’ve officially given up hope), we’d love to do some sort of stay-cation in KC this year. Maybe stay at the President’s Hotel, go to dinner at the Sky Restaurant, hang out downtown….

    Concerts - We are officially making an effort to see more shows in KC. Not sure where we’re going to start….but it’s happening, damnit.

    Sports at Sprint Center - I’ve been to a few concerts at the Sprint Center, but never to a sports event. Someday we’ll get a hockey team here (fingers crossed), but until then, a NCAA sports tournament will do.

    NASCAR Race - This is Trent’s idea. He wants to wear fake mullets and drink Pabst. I suppose I can do that. Anything for marriage, you know?

    Greatwolf Lodge - This is an indoor waterpark / hotel out in the suburbs that my sister takes her kids to on a regular basis in the wintertime. Once Lu can keep her head above water, I think this would be a great weekend treat in the middle of a bleak, grey winter.

    New Tattoo - Really doesn’t have anything to do with Kansas City, but both Trent and I are jonesing for new tats. I have a full idea drawn out for mine, now I just need money, time and a good artist recommendation. Anyone?

    Hot Air Balloon Ride - This actually replaced another idea, skydiving, because Trent thought the original idea was too dangerous. Whatever, floating through the sky will work just as well. I hope someone packs parachutes though.

    Do you all have any fun activities you do that are unique to your city? If you’re in KC, do you have any other recommendations for me?

    *Song lyric from Iglu & Hartly, In This City